How to Change Your Luck in Dating Women

How to Change Your Luck in Dating Women

There is a famous saying that goes 'as a man thinks so is he'. This was stated by King Solomon in all his wisdom and stands true. The laws of attraction have also tried to explain this phenomenon of the mind. It is a fact that yon attract good things by the reason of mind. The attitude and the choices your make through the same determine what happens to you. Dating is not an exception. Most of the guys that still walk around with beer mugs next to their chest hoping that the night would get 'lucky' end up going home alone and broken for this very same reason.

Theirs is not a resolution but a choice not to be lucky. Here are some ways you can move from you getting lucky with the women to the women getting lucky to have you.

Identify the weakness

Women will be looking for a man devoid of weaknesses. Some of these are men with a damaged self esteem. This can be seen through the cracks. If you are the kind that still gets jitters and butterflies when talking to a random girl in the bar or at work, you need to get some help. You need to spots your weaknesses and get help for them. There is no use in trying to tell yourself that these make you unique. This will be uniquely lonely in the long run.

Spot your phobias and what you fear and overcome it. If you fear rejection then that is a problem. Getting over rejection begins with loving self and moving from selfishness to making a girl laugh. Some of the best men in the field are those that are not afraid to give and not just looking to take away.

Change mind set

Changing the way you think will liberate you form issues. You need to think highly of self and know that anything is achievable through thought. If you get around and ask dome of the dating maestros in the bar what the name of the game is, you might be surprised and even think that they are arrogant. They feel confident and know that it is a guarantee that they will get a girl the same night. They know for a fact that girls love them and love being around them. You will also be shocked to learn that they might not be the best looking in the room and in most cases not better looking than you. Confidence is felt and seen. You can almost say that women will smell a loser from a distance and scurry away.

Plan of action

Go for it! You need to come up with plans that can actually be executed. Having known how to deal with your weaknesses and changing personality and style allows you to become better. A change in style will means improving the way you dress, talk and even the cologne you wear. It is an act that men will fell better when looking better 90% of the time. It is impossible to ignore a sharp or well groomed man. Get out of the funny slacks and sweaters and go for something that highlights who you really are. Hit the gym and improve speech where possible. This may not only help in dating but increase your chances in the world altogether.