How To Make Her Want You

For those that are single and want to get a woman back to their place, you'll need to know more than just a few pickup lines. You'll need to find out what is going to make someone turn from friendly chatter to sexual attraction. Enticing her to come with you is a matter of playing a few notes correctly and making sure that you do not come across as too nice of a guy. The old saying that they finish last will haunt you if you believe that you're too "nice" in any way. Making sure that you're able to move past that initial chat will require you to act more confident than ever, because in the end, that's what's going to get you hitting the sheets fast.

First and foremost, when you're approaching a woman, you have to realize that they get hit on a lot. If they are used to guys coming on to them, then they already know the pickup lines and they can smell fear. Do not approach them with fear, instead, treat them with a certain respect and even if you're sweating like crazy and nervous, do not show it. You'll need to put on a poker face of confidence, because if you can get past the fact that you are falling head over heels or that you're infatuated with her looks, then you will go further than others. Steady confidence, will keep you going forward.

When you start to talk to her and things are going well, make sure that you pick up on any notes that would point towards wanting to leave. If you get the hint right, you'll be with her in the evening, but if you misstep or make a mistake in what she wants to do, you'll be alone. Picking up on these things is a matter of paying close attention to the signals she throws at you. If she's playing with her keys or she seems like she's had enough to drink, or is wondering about a cab, you need to step in, or else you'll miss the opportunity.

Aside from the raw sexual attraction, you'll need to smell good. Don't shower yourself in cologne, but make sure that you smell of a certain essence. Take the time to adopt a fragrance that is mild and make sure that you just have enough to make sure that she remembers you. Not only that, make sure that you're not too dressed up for any occasion, but rather neat and clean. Only you can decide what kind of girl you want, and with that knowledge, you'll need to dress for the moment. Clean, neat, and smelling good will lead you to the plate, but that initial confidence and swagger mentioned above will get you to her front door and inside.

The number one mistake you'll want to avoid in trying to pick up women is being too nice. Sure, be chivalrous, open doors, buy drinks, but do not apologize, or backtrack when you are talking or try to be overbearing. Being yourself works, but only if you're comfortable with your own skin.