There are a lot of
different ways that you can use your body to attract women, especially when
you're on a date. Many of the tips and tricks that you might be cycling through
in your mind, may not work with every woman, which means that you'll need to denote
some things that will help you when the time is right, and avoid becoming
another casualty of the dating scene. Figuring out how body language attraction
works is a matter of investing a little time in learning how to become a more
confident individual.
Being confident is
everything in the dating world, especially around attractive women. You'll find
that if you are exemplifying a certain aura that is not associated with being
meek, mild, or timid, you will gain major influence. Remember, beautiful women
get hit on by a lot of men and are often in the presence of those that are
trying too hard, so with that in mind, lay back and just be cool. Playing
things cool will make sure that your body language is not saying the wrong
things.
Subtle touches can
help her know that you're interested, but do not make them obscene. Avoid
touching when you are too far apart, and if you find yourselves close together,
reach for her hand and try to showcase a little bit of attraction. The more you
show her that you're interested the more she'll either oblige or brush it off.
If she brushes it off and doesn't seem to be ready to be touched, don't
pressure the situation, you need to roll with it so that you're not panicking
inside your mind.
One of the biggest
mistakes that you can make when showcasing body language is trying to cover
yourself up. Don't fold your arms over your chest, and try not to look like
you're nervous by rubbing your neck, touching your face, or playing with your
nails, hair, or anything like that. Stand tall, sit up straight, and by all
means smile. Smiling, laughing, and playing a little confidence even when
you're nervous, will only prove to be beneficial in the long run. This can lead
to touching, but you have to absolutely make sure that you're gregarious about
things or else you will lose her.
If she initiates
touching or shows body language that is akin to a date going further, follow
the signs. It's hard to illustrate what a woman will show you, but if you're
attentive you will know what is going on all the time. Remember, she will give
you openings, you just have to slowly follow through without fear of rejection.
Casting out all fear is the key here, if you do not get away from anxiety, or
self loathing, you will fail in your quest to get a woman.
This all might seem a
bit difficult to process, and for some, it is definitely hard to get moving
forward, but if you simply work on these things in front of a mirror, you will
be able to confront any situation and get even the hottest woman you find to be
attracted to you.
This is a very
important skill that all guys have to know. How do you know she is attracted to
you. Have you done enough to make her attracted to you?
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