10
Explanations (yet surely not all) Just Why Men Betray The Women They Love
From a sexual
standpoint, healthy adult men are likely to be most stimulated by visual
enjoyment of women's body parts and sexual shows. Men in general also appear to
have a larger psychological ability to engage in objectified, shadowy sexual
experiences. This is the key reason why men enjoy pornography and strip clubs -
settings that permit them to sexually objectify female body parts.
I am merely giving a
few likely explanations of why men are unfaithful. It's what men are built for.
It's a piece of their reproductive function. It is a by-product of extended
life spans, more numbing careers, and too much labor. And it is an instinctive
refusal to give up one's own need for the problematic and antiquated structure
of marriage.
1. Men become
miserable in a relationship. This most typical excuse for cheating usually
sounds something like she's gained weight, nags all the time, and does not want
to have sex any longer. What on earth is a guy to do? But in reality, no matter
how rational infidelity may seem at the moment, having sex or affairs when
unhappy with your spouse is a poor way to deal with relationship problems.
2. Unfaithful men may
have spouses who cheat. Men also get revenge on their unfaithful wives, by
having multiple relationships. Regardless of whether their wives are guilty,
some men carry on with their tricks. This is mostly done by men who don't want
to forgive their spouses.
3. Most men have had a
gorgeous woman in fact come on to them. Just how we manage it depends on
several factors, marital status presumably chief among them. Single? Great, hit
it. Not single? You know what the answer should be, but do you possess the
willpower? The sort of husband or boyfriend who gives into this type of
enticement is often less experienced with women in spite of his being spoken
for. Self-discipline is way overestimated.
4. Once you hit 40 or
even 50, a man needs to know he still has game. An opportunity to get naked
with a woman half his age isn't something to turn down - unless he's sure to
get caught. If it's the babysitter, you had better add up the cost of half your
stuff, since that's a likely price to pay.
5. He isn't who he
appears to be. This man never meant to be monogamous, in spite of taking a vow
or making a commitment. He doesn't have empathy for his wife, and he sees being
faithful as something to work around rather than respect. His desire to get
what he wants anytime he wants it supersedes the benefit he places on respect,
intimacy, and partnership.
6. Every now and then
in a long-term relationship, people let themselves go. Maybe she has gained a
ton of weight, developed a drinking condition, or simply does not care anymore.
The problem with familiarity is that you don't become aware of these things as
they occur over time. Instead, you awaken one day and realize the creature
sharing your house is a far cry from the girl you first spotted and lusted
after. Yet again, for many men, it comes down to choosing between fixing a
tricky problem or just chasing tail elsewhere.
7. A few men will turn
to a new woman because they do not believe their efforts to bring home the
bacon are respected. A rotten, shopaholic wife is enough to make an older man
long for flower power, free love, and a simpler life.
8. Many guys remain
aggressive throughout their lives. Conquest feels good. We need to be
champions. What better way than by keeping a number of females happy.
9. Every so often you
just have to break the rules. The stable husband and father checks out of the
workplace, goes to a bar, and takes a day to blow things off. If that involves
some strange, all the better.
10. He could be a sex
or love addict. This man makes use of sexual fantasy and cravings as a means to
calm demanding life tensions he sees difficult to tolerate. He uses sex and
romantic passion to draw attention away from emotional emptiness and to stay
away from uncomfortable feelings.
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